Emily Foo Mei Hwe
Sunday, February 26, 2012
milestone with baby Wei Ern - 3rd month
Jonathan very first hair cut
Valentine's day 2012
Friday, January 27, 2012
Bonding with my precious - Jonathan
Wednesday, January 11, 2012
milestone with Baby Wei Ern - 2nd month




Sunday, January 01, 2012
Postnatal depression
Here's what I am going through:-
1. Miss my husband a lot, especially when he is not at home. The love for him suddenly gush out from me?! Or I am seeking more of his attention ?!
2. I cried twice in 2 weeks time. The first was quarrel with Sam, I can't remember what was the actual issue. The second time was failed to breastfeed 伟恩,the feeding could took 2 hours; the pain from the first suction after latching on, not enough sleep, all these incidents made me very tired and emotional. At the end, I had a one to one talk with Jonathan, set rules for him - there's time for everything;e.g. do not sleep while eating; when you eat, you eat ; learn to focus with things that you do.
3. Thought of becoming full time mother, I start getting worry Jonathan's development when i resume to work. I can't trust others to take care of him. At thus point, Sam still want to take care on his own.
4. Worry I do not have enough time for the family. When I resume to work, I'll be back home around 6pm, left with 6 hours to spend with Sam and Jonathan daily, it's not enough to build a strong loving family.
5. With the concern of Jonathan's development and quality time with family, the thought of becoming full time housewife even stronger; but, I may become those lady that long for hubby to come home, complain about neighbor, market...... Other than that, my income is also crucial to support this family, how could I quit ???
Saturday, December 31, 2011
milestone with Baby Wei Ern - Baby Dedication
On 25th December 2011, we had the baby dedication event in church, which is sister Siok Beng's house, because the church's lock can't open.
25 th Dec 2011, also the first day Jonathan come to church after he is born. He was so awake through out the whole service, from the worship to sermon to baby dedication. Praise the Lord that baby doesn't make noise, he just open his eyes big look around, as if listening to the sermon - Papa Heng preached about being a container that filled by Holy Spirit. milestone with baby Wei Ern - Full Moon



Tuesday, December 06, 2011
milestone with Baby Wei Ern

Thursday, December 01, 2011
Delivery 3: D Day has come

Delivery 2: in the hospital on 23 Nov 2011
6:30am Dr Aldrin came and see me, explain my condition and treatment goal, we aim to deliver 24 hours later, hope there is no contraction and labour now. By delivering baby now is consider pre-term still, am in 35 weeks. Ultrasound scan the baby, the size is good and the amniotic fluid is sufficient, it's good for the baby stay in the womb now. There also may be situation that the water bag stop leaking by itself, but rare. So, I am gonna be mama earlier ;)
The midwives did a vaginal check on my dilation, not open yet. I hate this part, it's so painful and uncomfortable.
I was on drip, and given antibiotic; while the baby was given dexamethasone to cause an immature fetus's lung to produce a compound called surfactant. A full-term baby's lungs naturally produce surfactant, which lubricates the lining of the air sacs within the lungs. This allows the inner surfaces of the air sacs to slide against one another without sticking during breathing.
Premature infants whose lungs have begun producing surfactant are more able to breathe on their own, or with less respiratory treatment, after birth.
Admitted to hospital, i am still able to smile, not feeling any contraction yet
8:30am
The ultrasound scan shown there is some contraction, but i am feeling anything. That's how advance of technology nowadays.

this is the machine that detect baby heartbeat, my contraction, i think also include the amniotic fluid level

12:30pm Dr Aldrin came, a check on me, apparently i am fine. I still didn't feel any contraction yet.
i stay at this condition until the next day morning, lying on the bed and wait.
Sam went home around 6am , came back to hospital to visit me at around 5pm, stayed with me about 1 hour or so. Around 11pm, Sam got me some food then he went back to clean up the house.
Though he didn't spend much time with me in hospital, but he can't contribute much if he stayed.
